I would like to give my partner a present, is going to a swingers club a good option ?
In our opinion, only if you want to go as well, usually cases were one of the partners is interested only are not successful.
Are you jealous sometimes if your partner has sex with someone else?
No, for us the swingers lifestyle, the parties, the meetings are an additional layer of our relation, it’s not replacing any of the existing ones, not even the sexual part. But it’s a good topic for internal jokes.
What kind of party would you recommend for a first time ?
Definitely a party with only couples, that’s in our eyes a proof of quality. Maybe not a huge party at the beginning.
What questions should we ask another couple before dating them ?
Please have a look at this post about the questions to ask before swinging with a couple
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